Bring a large pot of water to a boil and salt it lightly (pecorino is salty, so go easy here). Add the spaghetti and cook 1 minute less than the package al dente time, stirring occasionally. Make sure to keep plenty of the starchy cooking water.
12 ounces spaghetti
While the pasta cooks, grate the pecorino on a Microplane. The texture should be light and powdery, not clumped — this is what lets it melt into a smooth sauce.
4 ounces Pecorino Romano
Grind the black pepper coarsely into a small bowl, then add it to a large, dry skillet. Toast over medium heat for about 1 minute, swirling, until fragrant. Then turn the heat down to low.
2 teaspoons black pepper
With the heat on low, carefully ladle about ½ cup of the pasta water into the skillet. Make sure the pan is not too hot or the water will splash. Let it bubble gently for about 30 seconds.
Use tongs to transfer the pasta directly from the pot into the skillet. Toss vigorously over low heat for 1–2 minutes, adding splashes of pasta water as needed. Taste a strand to check it is properly cooked before moving on.
Take the skillet off the heat. Ladle about ½ cup of pasta water into a bowl and let it sit for a moment — it should not be piping hot, or the cheese will seize and turn lumpy. Whisk in all of the grated pecorino until you have a smooth, pourable cream, adding a splash more water if any lumps remain.
4 ounces Pecorino Romano
Pour the pecorino cream over the pasta and toss vigorously with tongs, adding splashes of pasta water as needed. Keep tossing until the sauce turns creamy and glossy and coats every strand, about 1 minute.
Divide between bowls and finish with freshly cracked black pepper and extra grated pecorino. Serve right away. Enjoy!